Delicate subject so lets dive into it.
If you are coming to see a lady you are expected to be freshly showered, trimmed and ready to play. Now with that said most of the ladies will like you to have a quick shower just to make everything sparkling clean. A quick shower to clean the boys and towel dry should only take 5 min. That will get the encounter off to a great start and all the smells are good.
Now if you come planning to have a 30 minutes soaker in the shower that time is off your time booked with the lady. We schedule for a reason so there is adequate time between guests but a 30 min shower will make a mess of everything if its not included in the time booked. Also during the shower the lady is sitting and waiting for you so she should be compensated for that time.
After session shower. If you need to that ok but again 5 min shower should be enough to clean you up before picking up the wifey after work. Don’t take advantage of the ladies.
This relates to the Hygiene post